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How does one succeed in life?

13.06.2025 02:18

How does one succeed in life?

Hangs out with loser friends.

Self-disciplined (controls his d*ck, no Netflix, no smoking, etc.).

Example 3: Maybe you want to make more friends.

Why do some people dislike rap and hip hop music despite there being poor quality music in every genre?

Ask yourself:

Losers and winners have the same goals. The difference is their systems.

First, understand that, effective "change" should be 80% systems and only 20% willpower—not the other way around. Do not joke with that.

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Attending 1 specific event every week is a system. Friends will naturally come to you.

Scrolls too much TikTok/YouTube Shorts.

Opens a business and makes WiFi money.

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The money you’ve invested, the tailored plan, and the accountability of the coach make it almost impossible not to succeed.

What I need from you?

I never raise problems without solutions. So, what to do?

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That's it for today.

Can’t control his impulses (women, porn, masturbation, smoking, Netflix, anger, etc.).

The truth is: Future YOU is simply YOU, but older and more tired.

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Example 1: Let’s say you make a monthly income, and you want to save $10,000.

Cutting off WiFi at home for a month or giving your phone to a distant friend for a month (in exchange for a Nokia or simply nothing) is a system.

Example 2: Maybe you want to lose weight.

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PICK 1 important thing you want to quit or bring into your life in 2025. Think hard about a system that will make it impossible or inevitable.

Avoids sugar and is very fit.

Hates going to the gym, eating healthy, or even doing laundry.

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Paying a coach with a detailed plan is a system.

An average man, let's call him Sam’i (that’s my name):

“YOU 2.0” is like your future kid. It’s your duty to make decisions for him. It is wiser to marry a nice mom for your kid, not just a beautiful wife for yourself.

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How can I make it impossible to fall into a specific bad habit (you want to quit)?

Losing 20kg is a goal.

Living to your full potential is a goal.

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Has a beautiful wife, cars, etc.

However, he firmly believes that one day, he will (like by a miracle) be that new, dope version of himself, Sam’i 2.0:

Keep in mind that, there is always a system for any problem. You just need to be willing to think hard enough and BE WILLING TO MAKE SACRIFICES.

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Big dreamer but only in his mind.

Similarly, "YOU 2.0" trusts you to make decisions for him.

Like Sam’i, 99% of men treat their future selves like strangers—completely different from who they are right now.

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Does not procrastinate.

How can I make the good habit (you want to start) inevitable?

Final example: Maybe you want to be a better version of yourself in 2025.

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Saving $10,000 is a goal.

Buying, a book like Live Intentionally or any other practical self-improvement guide is a system.

Example 4: Maybe you want to quit porn for 30 days.

Why do I sweat so much after applying moisture or sun screen on my face? I have normal skin.

If you don’t change now, expect tomorrow to be almost exactly the same—or worse.

Quitting porn for 30 days is a goal.

Having a process that automatically transfers money to your savings account each month is a system.

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Procrastinates a lot.

In 5 years, YOU will still be the one making decisions. And if you keep your current habits, "YOU 2.0" will have big problems.

Most people think their 2.0 version will magically manifest and find it easier to do hard things.

What is the lowest probability event you have personally witnessed?

Do not set goals—set systems.

Porn blockers might help, but they won’t be as effective. And you know nudity isn’t just on Pornhub—it’s everywhere. Don’t joke with fire.

Making more friends is a goal.